वायस लेडीज वुड क्नोव व्हेन अ मन इस रेडी FOR MARRIAGE

INTRODUCTION
Successful marriage comes to every lady as a result of coming in contact with a man that is already prepared to go into marriage relationship. Not the one that is not yet ready to take the bull by the horn. Who is still junketing from one city to the other like a roaring lion looking for whom to devour in the name of :I will marry you”. And at last he will not keep his promise, after robbing the lady her pride and Honour of womanhood.

The reason I wrote this Blog is to stop this menace of subtlety and to create awareness and guidelines on how our ladies can escape their snares whereby they have they have used to deflower many virgins. Through this Blog, you are going to know how to discern when a man is truly ready for marriage; and how you can go about it with him in order to make it workout for better. I strongly believe that this Blog will do you a lot of good if you can read it and practice it’s teachings.

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WAYS LADIES SHOULD KNOW WHEN A MAN IS TRULY READY FOR MARRIAGE
1. Preparation
Jesus said, “For which of you, intending to build a tower, sited not down first, and counted the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it”. (Luke 14:13). Preparation is among the first steps a man takes when he is getting ready for marriage. Any man who fails to prepare will fail to achieve, to reach a goal in life.

Marriage is expensive business; it’s a life business. It is the oldest institution founded by God on earth. It is not for children, not for gamblers and playboys. It is for men, prepared men who are ready to take the bull by the horn.

How prepared a man is to start off his marriage ceremony will determine how fast he can finish it and bring in his spouse. Waiting so long to finish marriage ceremonies is not good at all. It may lead to fornication and discouragement.

2. Seriousness
A man may gamble and play ladies around for years, but when he gets set for marriage he shows seriousness and meaningfulness. He stops playing around and answer the call to become a full-fledged man.

To know if a man is truly ready for marriage, check his seriousness over the matter. Is he still a playboy? A Mama or
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Dady boy? A traveler who is not yet ready to settle down to build a home? If those are the case, he is not yet ready for marriage.
3. SINCERRITY OF PUROSE
Another word for sincerity is genuine; not pretended; straightforward. It is the quality of being honest to someone being loved.

To check if a man is truly ready for marriage, measure his sincerity of purpose. Does he mean business? Does he really want to do it? Or is he pretending in order to rub you your virginity?

Many men have used this gimmick of “I will to marry you” and defiled many innocent ladies in our society today. It’s time our dear ladies should checkmate them by measuring their sincerity of purpose towards the issue. Ladies should know that not all that glitters are gold! They should beware of men who are not sincere and purposeful in life. They are like green snakes in green grass. Discover act of non-sincere man

4. NOT PROCRASTINATING.
In the words of Edwin Louis Cole, “Procrastination steals time, kills initiative and destroys production”. Benjamin Frankline said, “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today”. And Martin Luther King Jnr. Said, “The time is always right to do what is right”.
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To know if a man is truly ready for marriage he must start to do what is right to do at the right time. If he procrastinates over what he ought to do now, he may never do it again. Wasting time wastes someone’s life. By the street of by and by, one arrives at the house of never. It is either now or never!

5. RESPONSIBLE
How responsible a man is determines his readiness for achievements. A man who goes about drinking, smoking, chasing women, and doing all kinds of illicit and immoral things is not responsible at all. It may take such a man long time to settle down and build a God fearing home.

I have seen some men who put ladies in family way and denies responsibility. I have seen others who date and invite three or four ladies at the same time in their house, and these ladies fights and injure themselves in order to retain their man and their dream home. This is irresponsibility indeed.

Ladies should use their tongue to count their teeth. Responsibility is being accountable, trustworthy, being relied upon someone who will be legally or morally be liable for your life in case of any eventuality.

May the lord give you the right man in Jesus name, Amen



6. LOVING
Love is the foundation of marriage. It is also the foundation of the world. The Bible says, “God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. (John 3:16).

So many people think God founded this word in wickedness, that’s the reason why there’s wickedness on earth today. No! God founded this world in love and happiness. He founded marriage and our lives in love. It is the devil and his fallen angels that brought wickedness into this world, into our lives and homes.

When we get born-again, we receive the love of God into our lives. Then in whatever we do, we express this love that we have received from God. This is what happens when a man finds the lady he should marry. Hw begins to express this love to her in so many ways according to Bible injunction.

He shows this lady that he loves her by going to alter with her. He buys and showers her with gifts. He takes her out, live patiently and peacefully with her, listening to her, shout not on her, etc.

Love is of the spirit but there must be physical evidence to express it.

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7. MATURITY
Maturity is a state of the mind. It is a level of growth a man can display. It is not based on age. A man of twenty years can be more mature in mind and handling of mater than a man of fourty years. Sometimes it goes with level of education and exposition. The more you are exposed and educated, the more you are maturing.

Women are weaker vessels. They display weakness in so many things, no matter their age. They need a man to guide, teach, protect and advice them always. This is the reason every lady should marry a mature man. Don’t marry a baby boy or else both of you will live ignorance in many things. Look for maturity in that man to determine if he is truly ready for marriage.

8. FULL OF FAITH AND SPIRIT
The bible says, “But without faith it is impossibility to please him for he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him” (Hebrew 11:6).
Without faith nobody can please God and without faith no man can please and live with a woman. Women lead by sight, by what they can see and behold with their natural eyes. It takes a man full of faith and spirit to live with them and carry them along.

No woman what to marry a baby in the lord. They are all looking for a man of God, a man full of faith and spirit of God. This is how God created them. They have to depending on their husband for every thing. They are created just a help-mate.

9. HARDWORKING
There is no food for a lazy man! If a lazy man marries a wife, hunger will kill both of them. This is the reason why no lady should to marry a lazy man. They should marry a hardworking man. A man that can be able to take care of them. No matter what God may use them to add to the family.

The Bible says, “But if any (man) provides not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied he faith, and is worse than an infidel (I Timothy 5: 8)”

A man that stays in the house by 10.00am with a towel tied round his waste must be a lazy man. A man that goes to bed early and wakes up late in the morning must be a lazy man. A man that goes about playing games, trying to see how he can win jackpot must be also be a lazy type beware of them or else hunger will visit you in a marriage.

10. BUSINESS INCLINED
Jesus said, know ye no that I must be about my father’s business?” (Luke 2: 49). When Jesus was here on earth he was doing his father’s business. He wasn’t lazy but was committed to the call. Apostle Peter while describing the nature of Jesus business wrote.
“How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the holy Ghost and with power. Who went about doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil, for God was with him” (act 10: 38).

Every man suppose to be a business inclined, business oriented. He must be about a business, I either a family business, personal one or he is employed. And the nature of such a business must the type that gives God Glory. It shouldn’t be fraud and destructive business.

Ladies must find out the nature of business their would be husband are doing. Is it the business that will give them peace in the house or the one that will put home under police surveillance?

Ladies must be sure also no go into marriage relationship with any man that doesn’t have a meaningful business. A man that his business can be able to feed one mouth, talk of feeding two or three mouths, unless they are ready to pay prize of headership till things improve.

11. DEDICATION
The amount of his dedication to God and his local church will determine his purity and Godliness a dedicated man will keep his marriage vow and promises he has fear of God in his life. He will never treat her lady wickedly. He treats her tenderly and with all respect and honor.

Every lady needs spiritual security in her marriage. Any one of them that make mistake and marriage satanic agent will regret it. They should make sure the man they are out for is a dedicated child of God. He must be a born again and dedicated to local church. He must be active to church program. He must also be given to support the work of God, the work of evangelism and charity.

12. HOSPITALITY
Hospitality means friendly, generous reception and entailment of guests.

The man must be hospitable because after your welding, your relation and his will be visiting your home. Your friends and his will be visiting your home. They will be coming with one need or the other. And he must support them according to his strength of income. He must not be stingy and close to his door to them. He must be hospitable and healthful, and attend they needs. If he is a type that so stingy and doesn’t help his people, after his welding, his people will accuse the wife for being the cause of his stinginess and un-hostility.

13. PRAYERFUL
How prayerful he is brings to him close to God. When he close to God, he will be after from the devil and his evil work and hindrance and destruction a man that is getting ready to marriage must be prayerful in other to receive bless and favor from God. Martin Luther, “the less I pray the had it get, the more I pray the better it goes ”.

Prayer is the incense of our heart that rises to God. Prayer is the perfume of our body that sweetest the heaven it is through prayer that stream flow to our dry palaces and our every sight blossom as a rose. Prayer is the heavenly telephone that brings the distance near. It is wireless of telegraph that sends its heartthrobs on the either waves of heaven. It finds the heart of God and drops every burden and sorrow into his ear. It ascends like a vapour and supplies showers of blessing to our every need.

For any man to have breakthrough in marriage and other things of life, he must be prayerful. Must learn how to spend time in the presence of God.

14 ASSOCIATIONS HE KEEPS
The association he keeps will make or mar him. If he associates with criminals and fraudsters, he is one of them or will soon become one. If he associates with womanizers and those groups of men who make mockery of womanhood, he is a womanizer and a mocker. Whatever association he keeps is what he has become.
“Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”, someone said.

Change is inevitable. A living thing is distinguished from a dead by the multiplicity of the changes at any moment taking place in it. He cannot become what his is destined to be by remaining what he is. He must change if he is truly ready for marriage so that he will be able to build a God fearing home.

15. UNDERSTANDING
It takes understanding to go into marriage and succeed. It is not easy for two different people from different background, culture and upbringing to come together as husband and wife. It requires a lot of understanding to handle their differences in order to build a happy home.

The man must be intelligent and wise enough to handle his wife, his in-laws and his own relations in his marriage affairs or else they will scatter his new home. He must accept, tolerate and consider their suggestions, weakness and view; but in all he has the final say.

He must be a man that is ready to give his woman time to grow and develop to his own taste. He must be the type that will accept the lady as she is and help her to overcome her shortcomings, limitations, fears and weaknesses. He must not be the type that will shout and bully her. After all, Rome was not build in a day!
16. PEACEFUL
He should be a peacemaker, and not a quarrelsome type. Peace is a quality of maturity and godliness. The Bible says, “Blessed are the peace makers: for they shall be called the children of God (Matt. 5:9)

He should be a child of God and a follower of peace with all men. He mustn’t be a type that will not give peace a chance.

He should not be the type that will take family matters outside for settlement. He should not bring third party into his house to settle misunderstanding between him and the wife. But should be able to settle them amicably by themselves.

17. SOCIAL
He should be social and friendly. He shouldn’t be the type that will drive away your good friends. By the time you get married to him, your good friends will still be admiring your company and will be paying you visit. He should be the type that will allow them access to your matrimonial home for good.

There are some men that do not allow their spouse to greet men on the road. They are too suspicious. They think any man you exchange pleasantry with is your boyfriend. Try to explain to him that you are not living in Island or in isolated world.

18. KEEP DATING RULES
Dating is not marriage. When a man begins to date you, it doesn’t mean he has married you and is now your husband. No! You are trying to learn, develop and prove if you will become husband and wife soon. It is time for fellowship and character training and development.

During this time you have to be very careful with the man. You have to avoid petting and romance. You have to hold and bring your body under subjection no matter what your body chemistry is telling you to do.

Don’t allow him to mess up your pride of marriage, your pride of womanhood. Keep yourself pure till your wedding night. He may want to tempt you by asking you to prove your love by going to bed with him. And if you agree, he will relegate you as one of those ladies that sleep around with men.

He should be the type that will keep the dating rules. He should love you with the fear of the Lord. Don’t break your virginity with him outside wedlock (Whether you have natural or secondary virginity, keep it till your wedding night). That will become your pride and honour in his home.

19 HOME SUPPORTS AND HOUSING
He must come from a home and have a house where he is living (built or rented apartment). He should enjoy home support from the parents and relations. They have to support his plans and move to get married. They should give him all-round support in order to encourage him achieves his obligation.


By the time he takes his lady to the village or town to introduce her to his parents and relations, they should receive her in love. If they fail to accept her, the lady should know that she is going to face problem but if they receive her, she will enjoy a sweet and successful marriage because of the home support.

20. TOLERANCE
Tolerance is the quality of tolerating opinions, beliefs, customs, behaviour different from one’s own.

He must be a man that can tolerate you at all time. Most ladies have bad attitude and are untidy. These may not manifest so much or be seen when they are still single, but as soon as they get married and start having children, they will begin to showcase their wrong and weak side. It will then take a man of tolerance and endurance to live with them and carry them along for change.

Not willing to tolerate and change has lead to many cases of divorce recorded in our society today. This calls for enduring and bearing one another in love. The Bible says, “Love beareth all things, ---endureth all thing” (1Cor. 18:7)

21. RESPECTFUL
He must be a man that has value and respect for women. He shouldn’t be the type that abuse and disrespect them. He shouldn’t be the type that joins others to castigate ladies.

There are some men that don’t see anything good in a woman. All they see is devils and demons in them. This is not good at all. God wonderfully and beautifully creates women “Beside every successful man there must be a woman”. No man is complete without a woman.

22. CARING
Caring goes with humility. A humble man cares a lot while a proud man does not care at all. He doesn’t want to know how you feel. He head and eyes are on high always, and he may hurt you any moment of the day.

Marriage requires a lot of caring. When a woman is undergoing her menstrual period, she may not be strong enough to do something’s in the house. She needs a caring husband to assist her during that period. When she is pregnant, she needs great care and assistance from her husband. When she put to bed, she needs a caring husband by her side. When she is sick or weak, she also needs someone beloved around her.

If she is a working class lady, she needs her man to care and support her in the house. He should not wait for her to return from work before some certain things will be done in the house. He many prepare their meal if they don’t have a house-helper. There is nothing wrong about that. He can also wash their clothes, sweep and wash dishes once in a while. That doesn’t make him a woman wrapper. It should be done out of love and willingness to build a God-fearing home. He should accept responsibility in the absence of the woman, and show good example of loving service.

HOW TO OVERCOME SEXUAL TEMPTATIONS FROM MEN DURING DATING & COURTSHIP.
What is dating and courtship? It is a westernized cultural activity. It is not mentioned once in the Bible, and is meant to be a time of fellowship, character development, and social development. Through dating and courtship their are something in your life that can be developed with the person of opposite sex. To have a dating and courtship void of sexual sins and immorality you must:
1. Avoid those times alone in a room or on the beach. You may prefer a double dating where other people will be present.
2. Avoid being alone in a parked car in the full moon taking breeze.
3. Don’t go to hotels where they have lodging. You may prefer
Restaurants for lunch.
4. Avoid keeping lat nigh.
5. Don’t dress or undress in his presence.
6. Don’t expose your body for him to behold. If you show it all
to him now, there will be nothing left that will attract him
to you.
7. Avoid petting and romance.
8. Don’t lie down on his body.
9. Put God and His word first in your life and relationship
(Matt. 6: 33)
10. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling (Phil.2:2)
11. Pray and watch always to avoid the traps of the devil.
(Matt. 26:41)
12. Put your body under subjection by the power of the holy
spirit and the word of God. (1Cor. 9:27)
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